How to beat children?
What if the pussy refuses to obey and behaves in a completely inappropriate way? Is it possible in this case to beat the child, and how to do it so as not to injure the child? Let's try to understand these issues.
To beat or not to beat?
Psychologists all over the world say that it is extremely not recommended to beat children, since this can cause not only physical but also psychological trauma of a person who has not yet become strong. This issue is discussed in more detail in the article “To beat a child.
Adhering to the position that it is possible to beat the child only in special cases, we have prepared only informational material that will tell you in what form to implement this type of punishment so as not to harm the baby.
Whipping as a last resort
So, we will immediately agree that it is possible to beat children only in the most extreme cases, that is, after all possible educational methods have been tried. Moreover, the parent should know as many of these techniques as possible - this will bring up a fully developed, free and self-sufficient person.
Try to execute any kind of punishment not in public.So you only humiliate the child, injure or even break the not yet strengthened self-esteem of the baby.
Definitely refuse even light slaps on the cuff - despite the fact that this "technique" is very common, it can cause serious head injuries. If you beat your hand, you can lightly strike the hands of a disobedient child, thereby forbidding him to touch or break anything.
But in general, you should avoid punches, because in this case you will be directly associated with such a punishment, with pain and resentment. Therefore, it is better to still beat the child with a belt - this object looks quite threatening, but it does not directly associate with you. It is as if separated from your personality.
It is necessary to beat the child only on a bottom - it is the safest point of a body for blows. At the same time make sure that the blow was as gentle as possible. Focus not on the strength of the blow, but on its meaning for the crumbs. Let the slap be largely offensive, not painful.
Why you should not beat the child
Frequent use of force in relation to the baby can cause a variety of psychological problems:
- The child accumulates internal aggression. He may become more obedient in your presence, but, surrounded by strangers, will easily get out of control, will avenge others for his offenses.
- If parents often beat children, then they begin to perceive violence as a given, which they cannot overcome. And as a result, the child grows into a person who is not able to withstand brute force, cruelty.
- The use of force without detailed explanatory educational work will not help the child to understand what is wrong with his behavior. The norms of morality and ethics are not instilled in him, he only remembers that it’s impossible to do this.
- Over time, the force will cease to be the child's motivation, he will get used to this method of education.