How to understand his love?
It's no secret that men and women understand and show love feelings in completely different ways. That is why it is often difficult for us to understand whether a person really loves us and why his feelings do not seem to correspond to our actions. Let's find out how to stop doubting the feelings of a beloved man and how to understand his love.
A woman is by nature an emotional and sensitive being. She loves to openly and often show her feelings when she is truly in love. She is inclined to demand the same from her lover, and this is normal: we, as a rule, think subjectively, trying on any situation for ourselves. A woman who constantly shows her love to a man believes that this is proof of the authenticity of feelings. When a man does not behave in the same way, it seems to her that she is indifferent to him.
It should be said that the power of love is not measured by the frequency of external manifestations, but it is difficult to convince the representatives of the weaker sex. However, if your beloved one doesn’t rush to your neck every time you return from the store (as you do), this is not a reason to draw conclusions about extinguished love.It is very likely that he, like any man in essence, is more restrained in his impulses.
Real men tend to show their feelings through actions, not just beautiful words. If he can just remember which earrings you liked and in which store, and then present them to you with a deadpan look - what is the word here? If he tries to make you happy, to please for any reason and without, to give you what you dreamed about (be it a fashionable dress, a trip to Japan or marriage), then you can safely talk about his serious feelings for you.
Perhaps he does not know how to read you poetry, sometimes he is sullen and irritable, and sometimes you think that you are bored with him in general ... Understand once and for all that you are of different sexes, and this factor is enough to be very different. Do not expect that he will talk for hours with you, as a close friend, about new knick-knacks or discuss the shortcomings of your boss every day. But if he loves, he will bring you joy in all possible ways.
Candy-bouquet relations end
This is the most beloved period for a woman when she is beautifully cared for, carefully listened to her desires, in every way please her.Of course, I would like to extend it for the rest of my life, but this is far from all. And on completion of this magical stage in the relationship a woman decides that a man has fallen out of love with her. If he feels the same feelings, then where did the romance go?
Consider how to understand his love in such a situation. A woman can remain romantic in nature all her life, the weak sex has given this wonderful quality to nature itself. However, a man, as a rule, prefers football to sentimental melodramas, and career growth to studying table setting for a romantic dinner. He may be a couple of times and decide on this, but he is not at all going to occupy his thoughts with romance for a long time.
So a romantic mood in a couple, whatever one may say, you must take on. Gifts for holidays and flowers for no reason - this is a reason to think that he is experiencing a genuine affection for you. Please do not wait for knightly tournaments in your honor!
Quarrel for good
To provoke conflicts to make sure a man’s love is certainly not the best solution, however, if a quarrel has already inflamed, you can understand his feelings by the way he behaves in such a situation.
Imagine that as a result of a tiff you just left your beloved for a while. What will he do in this situation? Will call / come first or wait for the first step from you? Will you be bored and want to get you back as soon as possible or consider your quarrel a good reason to have a great time with your friends? Depending on his choice, you can easily understand how he treats you.
If you are to blame for the conflict, but the man takes the first step towards reconciliation, this may indicate his high nobility and great love (this is, of course, not critical cases when your guilt is unforgivable!). He just can not imagine his life without you and is ready to make concessions, just to return the old relationship.
In this situation, you can not wait for the desired phrases like "I love you more than life", "I can not live without you", "You are all that I need", etc. Again, let us remember about male restraint in the expression of emotions. Take your difference in matters of love as a given and learn to appreciate what you have.